Messages and contacts
How can I send a message?
You can send messages to any user on the site if you have an Imperial membership. To send a message, you must simply click the "Send message to..." button located directly below a member's main photo on the left of your screen (when looking at a given member's profile).
How can I send a wink?
Any member (basic or Imperial) can send winks to other users. To send a wink you must simply click the "Send wink to..." button located directly below a member's main photo on the left of your screen (when looking at a given member's profile). You can then choose a wink from the drop down menu, then send.
How do I block a user from emailing me?
Please visit the member's profile and select "Block" from your searches. They will then no longer be able to email you.
How do I add or remove someone from my favorites?
To add: please visit the member's profile and click "Like" to Your Favorites at the top of their profile.
To remove: Please visit your Favorites page and click "Remove" in his/her profile.
What are the rules in the chat room?
The rules for behavior in the chat room are as follows:
1. Absolutely NO NUDITY in the Public Chat Rooms
2. No Advertising or Spamming.
3. No flooding or unnecessary repetition.
4. Be Courteous & Respectful To ALL.
5. This is NOT a SEX room.
6. Follow Admin/Sysop Instructions.
7. No posting of private contact details.
8. No racist or prejudice slurs.
9. No Cybering in public.
10. No illegal activity, as per real life.
11. No personal insults to others.
What is wink?
It is a quick, fun way to let someone know you're interested. You pick a one-liner from the list, and it's sent to the member of your choice. The member gets the wink in the webmail or email address and then can go to your profile and wink back with you.
All users can send winks for free. If you’d like to take it a step further, then upgrade to an Imperial member and send an email to start up a real conversation.